"Dear Electromagnetic Sword,
I want to have a three-way! Do you have any tips for setting this up? My boyfriend would probably be into it, and for his sake let's say the first one should be me, him, and another girl (I've got more same-sex experience than he does, but he'll have to return the favor someday). Should we just get real drunk with one of our many hot female friends and act creepy? Also, what should he do to minimize any jealous inclinations I would have?
Come to think of it, should I just wait until I'm single again and do this with a good girl friend and some guy that I don't really care about?
Love,
An adoring fan"
haha Thanks for the adoration!
Now, to answer your questions:
Setting up a three way with a friend you care about and trust is probably the best way to go, although getting drunk and creepy around them is less than advisable. Knowing that your third understands your boundaries and respects your relationship will help with jealousy issues. Talking out what is and isn't kosher beforehand will also help. If you are having serious qualms already, you may want to wait until you feel more secure in your relationship as-is before bringing anyone else in, even if it is just for a night.
The good friend and random dude thing may be a decent idea if you're planning on being single soon. I suggest the random dude at least be an acquaintance. A lot of guys can be total creeps, and that will lessen the chance of happening upon one.
Hope that helps!
I want to have a three-way! Do you have any tips for setting this up? My boyfriend would probably be into it, and for his sake let's say the first one should be me, him, and another girl (I've got more same-sex experience than he does, but he'll have to return the favor someday). Should we just get real drunk with one of our many hot female friends and act creepy? Also, what should he do to minimize any jealous inclinations I would have?
Come to think of it, should I just wait until I'm single again and do this with a good girl friend and some guy that I don't really care about?
Love,
An adoring fan"
haha Thanks for the adoration!
Now, to answer your questions:
Setting up a three way with a friend you care about and trust is probably the best way to go, although getting drunk and creepy around them is less than advisable. Knowing that your third understands your boundaries and respects your relationship will help with jealousy issues. Talking out what is and isn't kosher beforehand will also help. If you are having serious qualms already, you may want to wait until you feel more secure in your relationship as-is before bringing anyone else in, even if it is just for a night.
The good friend and random dude thing may be a decent idea if you're planning on being single soon. I suggest the random dude at least be an acquaintance. A lot of guys can be total creeps, and that will lessen the chance of happening upon one.
Hope that helps!
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